Lost Weekend, 1974
By the early ’70s, John Lennon’s life was anything but peaceful. His marriage to Yoko Ono was drifting into troubled waters, and in one of the most unconventional plot twists in rock history, Yoko made a startling suggestion: John should begin an affair with their secretary, May Pang.
May Pang had worked closely with John and Yoko for three years when Yoko casually told her, He likes you a lot!
Pang was understandably stunned, but she eventually agreed. What followed was an 18-month chapter Lennon would later famously label his Lost Weekend.
During this period, Lennon dove headfirst into excess. There was heavy drinking, chaotic nights out, and plenty of time spent carousing with fellow rock royalty like The Who’s Keith Moon and singer Harry Nilsson. It was messy, loud, and legendary, but it couldn’t last forever.
By 1974, Lennon began feeling the pull to clean up his act. He was ready to refocus on music and himself, and one artist in particular had caught his attention: Elton John.
Lennon admired Elton’s talent and energy and reached out about working together. Elton happily agreed, and soon the two Englishmen found themselves in the studio recording what would become Lennon’s only solo number-one hit in the U.S.: Whatever Gets You Thru the Night.
The song itself had a quirky origin. Lennon was a devoted late-night channel surfer and often scribbled down phrases he liked. One evening, he caught evangelist Reverend Ike declaring, Whatever gets you thru the night!
Lennon loved it so much he immediately wrote it down, worried he’d forget it by morning. A hit was born.
While recording, Elton made a bold prediction, and a wager. He bet Lennon that the song would top the charts. Lennon was skeptical, but Elton doubled down and insisted on a deal - if it hit number one, Lennon would join him onstage at a live show.
The song did exactly that. True to his word, Lennon agreed to appear with Elton at his Thanksgiving concert at Madison Square Garden on November 28, 1974. Elton wanted Lennon to perform Imagine
, but Lennon declined. Instead, fans were treated to a thrilling blast from the past with I Saw Her Standing There
and Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds
. It would turn out to be Lennon’s last major live concert appearance.
Behind the scenes, something even more meaningful was unfolding. During the Lost Weekend, Elton had remained friendly with Yoko Ono. Backstage that night, Lennon received a gardenia with a note that read: Good luck, love, Yoko.
Lennon, already battling stage fright, felt comforted knowing she wouldn’t be in the audience.
What he didn’t know was that Elton had secretly invited Yoko, and planned for her to come backstage after the show.
Though Lennon and Yoko had spoken on the phone almost daily throughout his relationship with May Pang, they hadn’t seen each other face-to-face in over a year. After the Madison Square Garden show, their conversations deepened. Weeks later, Lennon called Yoko with clarity and conviction, telling her he was ready to come home.
The reunion changed everything. Yoko soon became pregnant, and Lennon stepped away from the spotlight entirely. For the next five years, he traded rock-star chaos for domestic life, embracing his role as a stay-at-home dad.
In the end, it wasn’t just time or distance that brought John and Yoko back together, it was a hit song, a daring bet, and one well-timed concert, all nudged along by Elton John.
Sometimes, rock history really does come down to whatever gets you thru the night.